Different Social Circles

May or may not be how it is for you

When you graduate from high school, whats left of your friends form a social group that last throughout university. This group would face your passes, failures, and party throughout your years in university.

However, for some people, they cannot find a balance between study and play. Which means that if they try to do both, it ends in failure. This means on of the options must be chosen.

For me, it was trying to find the balance, failing, then wizening up and choosing to focus to a degree on study. This meant my goals have changed, when goals change, same as how you interact within your social group. For example my social group that lasted from high school to university, love to party, this conflict of my current interest made me seek a different social group, one that was more mature in ways and orientated to study and success. From this change of social groups, you will realise that how you act previously may not be suited to the people you interact with in the new group, thus a change in attitude and how you act occurs, but not your personality.

Different groups have different social mannerisms, with that said, a word of advice is to consider careful if you try mixing social groups together. It may work out fine, but more often then not, two fundamentally different social groups do not act well together as their mannerism may be too different which may ensure conflict with you in the middle.

Thus, if you are the type of person that is transiting from one goal to another, it is important to have people with similar goals to you as it may drive you to the right direction, but you must not forget the original company of friends as they may not understand you, but they have stuck with you through thick and thin in the past. Even now such friends may not understand you, but as time passes, peoples mentalities changes, as such in university would mean they have gotten serious which with their priorities and formed a goal that may be similar to yours.

However, you have to remember that mixing social circles is a hassle due to differences and that beforehand the two groups are suited together in order to lessen the impact between each gtoupd.